My daughter has left, again. I am not certain where she is. She took all of her stuff.We had words, although I wouldn't exactly say we had an argument. I didn't yell or get mad.
I simply told her I hate it when she lies to me. She refused to stop lying.
When I confronted her about the lies, she denied them.That is a typical orphanage behavior. Even when confronted with the irrefutable truth, stick to the lie.
She told me yesterday that her life is happy and she is just fine.
She also said she doesn't have an Auditory Processing Disorder. I have a lot of evidence to the contrary.
I did the best I could to try and talk to her about getting her GED, getting a job, etc. She wouldn't listen. She didn't want to have that discussion. She wants to "couch surf" and not pay rent, not work, not take responsibility.
Despite the fact that she is gone again, my heart is 100 times lighter than it was before she came home. Why? Well, I know now she is incapable of making good choices for herself, healthy choices. It's NOT my fault. I did everything I could to try and help her. She doesn't want help.
So be it.
I am done.